January 31, 2008
BROKEN HEARTS
Well not sure if I should how I should feel this morning . Cause last
night I was involved in breaking the heart of a family member . Along with
her mother and aunt we had to prove to her that her husband ( that she is
very much in love with ) was a lying cheating dog. We had heard that since
they had seperated he was seeing another girl and even had her staying
in their home. Well last night it all came out in the washing room . We
witness the cheater picking up the other girl after he had made her walk
about a quarter of a mile in 31 degree weather and take her to his home
( the one his wife and 2 year old had lived in ). After having the proof, we
told his wife about what we had discovered and that is when everything
hit the fan . The worse part is he tried to lie his way out of it and hide
the other girl in the outdoor laundry room , but being good detectives we
found her and then there was no way for him to get out of it . So needless
to say I had an somewhat exciting and sad evening . I just wish the best
for her and I hope she comes out like me to be a lot stronger person .
I personally still can't believe he made her hide in an outside laundry
room and walk in the very cold weather we had last night , what a jerk.
Of course how brainy can the girlfriend be to go along with walking and
hiding outside .
Posted by Moodymom at 06:57 AM | Comments (0)
January 28, 2008
UNFAITHFULNESS
Why is it when a husband /wife / or partner decides to cheat they always
want to blame it on the other party ? I mean way back when
I was married I discovered that my husband was cheating on me with
a manager at McDonald's ( I mean just what is a Big Mac worth these
days ) and I can't prove it but I am sure there were several others . Well
he blamed me for him being unfaithful , like I had anything to do with it .
He really took my self esteem down to nothing and it took me along time
to get over it . I mean I didn't want to believe that he would do something
like that to me . Even though he had cheated on both of his previous
wives .
Well all of these brings me to some news I got over the weekend that
a friend of mine is separated from her husband and then come to find
out he is cheating on her . The worst part of the whole thing is that she
is never going to believe it even when she gets some actually proof.
They have a 2 yr old child . I don't understand why men or women
choose to do this and not just say look I am not happy in this relationship
so I think it would be better for both of us if we split or divorce and lets
go our sperate ways . So now my friend is going have to go thru the
same hell I went thru and that is not a fun road to go down . Why is that
the when one person cheats they always use the reason that things
have changed , he/she doesn't want to do anything anymore , he/she
doesn't give me the attention ,or my favorite one they just don't
give me what I need anymore it seems to always something is wrong
with the faithful one . So I just hope that my friend is able to get
through
this
tough time ahead of her and is able to keep her self esteem
Continue reading "UNFAITHFULNESS"
Posted by Moodymom at 09:26 PM | Comments (0)
November 29, 2007
NEW START UPDATE
Well as the old saying goes I was a day late and a dollar short . The
new guy that I was introduced to was also set up by a friend at his work.
Oh well that is how my life has been going lately down the drain so to
speak. But who knows maybe he won't get along with the other person
and give me a chance . He really did appear to be a nice guy but a little
on the shy side and very old fashioned . Not something I am used to
for sure . But I have not given up hope and will as the other old
saying goes get back on the horse and try again. So wish me lots of
luck and if it happens it does and if not oh well I am ok with that too.
Now I will get off my soapbox and get ready for the day to start and
get ready to go to the wonderful place known as work.
Posted by Moodymom at 06:54 AM | Comments (0)
November 19, 2007
NEW START
Well tonight is was a very strange night . Let me start by going back a few
days , I received a phone call from an old friend of mine and she wanted to
meet me for lunch but considering I had so much going on I had to take
a rain check . Well she finally told me the real reason behind why she
wanted to meet me for lunch she had someone she wanted to
introduce me to . Well tonight her and the guy came to the bowling alley for
him to meet me . I have to say he seemed very nice and he is a big Nascar
fan which in my book is a big plus. So we talked for a while and exchanged
numbers and he even called me tonight just to say Hi and thanks for meeting
him tonight . And even suggested that we meet again for dinner . This is a
total shock for me . I honestly am not sure if I want a serious man in my
life but I do think that having someone to hang out with and go have
dinner with would be a good thing. Who knows this might actually turn
out to be a good thing, guess just have to wait and see if anything becomes
of this new adventure . I will keep you posted on if anything happens.
Posted by Moodymom at 10:13 PM | Comments (2)
September 21, 2007
NEW ADVENTURE
I had the best evening I have had in a really long time . I went out for the evening on a date. I know this week had a really rough start for me but
the ending was the best. I had a date tonight was this new guy I met and had the best time I have had in such a long time . The evening started when he
arrived at my door with a red rose and a pink (my favorite ) rose , then it was off to dinner we went to Outback and had the best time and talked forever. Then I know this going to sound funny but we ended up going to play minature golf , not sure why but we both thought it would be lots of fun . We just laughed and joked and had a blast , we also rode the go karts ( something I enjoy
doing) and then hit the bumper boats and got totally soaked . Then headed
back to my house to watch a movie and dry out .Not going to say how we
dryed off let's just say it was very interesting and not boring at all . I will keep you posted about the next outing we are planning, I am sure it will be a blast.
Posted by Moodymom at 11:41 PM
September 19, 2007
RELATIONSHIP
Today is both good day and a sad day for me . The good part is I made a
wise decision to cut loose from a bad situation I had gotten myself into . Not wanting to go into a lots of details I basically kicked a guy to the curb that was
not a good choice for me . I had been dealing with a lot of crap from him for the past year or so and today was the final straw that broke the camel's back .
And I must say when I finally said this was the end of it I felt like a great weight had been lifted off of my shoulders . I have to admit yes I am a little sad about it cause I had some strong feeling for him but deep down I knew it would not turn out the way I had things planned . So I will be upset for a while but that is ok because I have learned alot from this adventure and I know for a fact it will not happen this way to me again. So wish me luck in the future and thanks for listening to me cry a little .....
Just so everyone knows this was not an abusive relationship , the guy was just a grade a jerk and would rather climb a tree and lie then to stand on the ground and tell you the truth.
Posted by Moodymom at 10:16 AM
August 23, 2007
Relations
Relations a major issue in my world , I mean there are a few people out there and when you meet them you think that is the one for me then it turns out that they are not the person you thought . I have came across this issue several times lately . There is this one guy that I met and I just thought he was the perfect guy for me , we had so much in common and just clicked. Well now a year and half later things have changed both on my part and also on his but mainly on his part.There are several things that I thought would happen that have not and honestly don't feel like they will ever happen, even though he says and does all the right things . Then this other guy came along and he turned out to be nothing more then a great friend and I am really happy to have him as a friend. But somewhere in the world there should be someone for me if not then oh well I have been there the love thing and the marriage thing once and that is enough for me .
Now on the other hand I have a friend that has waited and looked around and it appears she has found the one for her. She is busy making wedding plans and I must say I am really happy for her .CONGRATS SAB!!!!
But at the moment I am really happy with the way my life is going . Thanks for listening to my blabbering...
Posted by Moodymom at 06:01 PM