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January 28, 2008
UNFAITHFULNESS
Why is it when a husband /wife / or partner decides to cheat they always
want to blame it on the other party ? I mean way back when
I was married I discovered that my husband was cheating on me with
a manager at McDonald's ( I mean just what is a Big Mac worth these
days ) and I can't prove it but I am sure there were several others . Well
he blamed me for him being unfaithful , like I had anything to do with it .
He really took my self esteem down to nothing and it took me along time
to get over it . I mean I didn't want to believe that he would do something
like that to me . Even though he had cheated on both of his previous
wives .
Well all of these brings me to some news I got over the weekend that
a friend of mine is separated from her husband and then come to find
out he is cheating on her . The worst part of the whole thing is that she
is never going to believe it even when she gets some actually proof.
They have a 2 yr old child . I don't understand why men or women
choose to do this and not just say look I am not happy in this relationship
so I think it would be better for both of us if we split or divorce and lets
go our sperate ways . So now my friend is going have to go thru the
same hell I went thru and that is not a fun road to go down . Why is that
the when one person cheats they always use the reason that things
have changed , he/she doesn't want to do anything anymore , he/she
doesn't give me the attention ,or my favorite one they just don't
give me what I need anymore it seems to always something is wrong
with the faithful one . So I just hope that my friend is able to get
through
this
tough time ahead of her and is able to keep her self esteem
lots better then me . Cause I can tell you this is not her fault I am
sure she tried her best but he just wanted to find something better
and he doesn't have the balls to tell her the truth . And I am afraid it
is going to take him telling her the truth before she will believe it .
So if you are out there and you are thinking about or have already
cheated or your husband/wife you need to stop and think about just
what you are doing to them and just step up to the plate and
be honest and walk away before you hurt them more then you already
have cause trust me it is not a fun then to have to go thru and I have been
on both sides.
RELATIONS | By Moodymom | 9:26 PM